Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Mixing Children’s Literature with Motivation

SMITHTOWN MESSENGER - THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 10, 2011

Local Author Branches Out

 - Mixing Children’s Lit with Motivation

By Chad Kushins
Smithtown’s own Erin Ley has a lot to be thankful for, and is the person to admit it.  A cancer survivor who is also the proud mother of what she deems “three miracle babies”, the young children’s author has not only become a successful motivational speaker, but is currently readying herself for a local media blitz for her beloved children’s character, “Maggie the Magnificent”.
erin-with-3-booksmedLey first sat down with the Smithtown Messenger in 2005 upon the publication of the first “Maggie” book.  Since that time, Ley has not only been on a successful book tour, but has also taken her incredible story of survival to numerous campuses and hospitals, mixing humor and motivation at her lively speaking engagements.  Aside from a second children’s book, she also has gone on to pen an adult-oriented non-fiction work, “the Will to Live”, a memoir of her fight against cancer – ten percent of all proceeds of which to she American Cancer Society.
As a secondary career, Ley also works as a professional life coach and cancer counselor and advocate, instilling many of the virtues and lessons from the latter, adult-oriented book, something that is tied to her original course of studies: Ley holds a Bachelor’s of Arts, specializing in speech/language pathology, with a minor in Psychology from Hofstra University.
“After I beat cancer, I was able to volunteer some time to talk with other people who were either suffering from the disease or were adjusting to also having beaten it,” Ley told the Messenger.  “It didn’t take long before I realized that I wanted to do this, to help people in such a similar circumstance, on a larger basis.”
Her devotion not only led to “The Will to Live”, but also in Ley’s high-demand motivational speaking appearances.  In 2008, while making an appearance at Huntington’s famed Book Revue bookstore, she was awarded with an official Proclamation, given by Suffolk County Legislator John M. Kennedy, for her achievements and advocacy.
“It was a huge moment,” said Ley, “getting that type of recognition.”  But is was also that type of recognition that led to Ley’s invitation to act as keynote speaker at Stony Brook University’s Pediatric Cancer department that same year, as well as the launch of her online talk radio show, “onward and Upward”.
Ley, who lives in Smithtown with her husband, Ronnie and three children – Brendan, 13, Danny, 9 and Maggie, 8 – is currently gearing up for wider recognition in 2011.  Just this year, the young author is overseeing the re-publication of both “Maggie” books, as well as signing with a Long Island-based publisher that will oversee the expansion of her children’s character, as well as Ley’s own company, Onward Productions, Inc., which helps her retain the rights to the adventures of Maggie.
Ley initially picked “onward” as the theme of her company and show title because of its connotation with hopefulness and optimism. As she explained, “ My children’s fiction is about progressing and learning … the adult-oriented, motivational material is made in order to help patients and their families more “onward.”  And with the radio show, I retained that same theme because it is about trying to raise the bar in society and help families and the society itself as a whole break out of the status quo, if not the downslide that we can experience, and more “onward.”
Keeping busy, Ley is currently working a further children’s material.  “It’s been a very, very exciting time,” said Ley.  “With my speaking engagements and the cancer book, I hadn’t done as much children’s writing, which I missed.”
According to Ley, she was approached to expand on the “Maggie” character and even consider merchandising efforts, something that she not only accepted, but also has put her back in the swing of things to write another upcoming “Maggie” adventure. “What we’re looking to do this year is take my Onward Productions, and expand on what we can do with the “Maggie” stories.
Ley explained that Onward Productions is actually a multi-layered business model, and in the coming year, she plans to use a three-step process to make the educational children’s stories more accessible and attainable for new audiences.  Under the first step and with the aid of marketing directors Patrick Aievoli and Jeremy Cohn, her website (which also offers her radio program) will “go tech,” in becoming more video oriented and function with an e=commerce model, making her books and appearances readily available. The second step involves making the books – both the children and adult material – available for instant download and readable on such paperless mediums as the popular Kindle reader.  And finally, by the end of the year, Ley hopes to see “Maggie” merchandise including learning-instilled video games, available to help children learn and aid in schooling, right on the web-site.
“The character of Maggie is always seen learning and evolving,” said Ley, “and I love that, using the site, children can grow and learn with her.
Ley continued, “I’m so happy to see (Onward Productions, Inc.) come together like this, and feeling like I’ve finally found the true essence of bringing everything together … I’m very excited and grateful for the new year and the things that are upcoming.”
All information on Erin Ley, including her speaking engagement schedule and book sales, can be found at www.erinley.com.  Her monthly broadcast, including archived episodes can be found at www.blogtalkradio.com.

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Thursday, December 1, 2011

The Will to Stand Up to a Bully

Stop Bullying!
“Who wants to deal with negative people no less bullies during a joyous holiday season?”  rhetorical question is something I hear constantly these days. Whether it’s a kid, an adult, employee or just someone minding his/her own business shopping in a store, there seems to be someone ready and willing to TRY to bring others down. Are we as a society so uptight that the numbers of Carolers have gone down just as dramatically as the Scrooges have gone up?
So where do we find some semblance of a solution to a problem that’s been plaguing individuals like a cancer since the dawn of time? Hmmm…how about… within ourselves! If each of us takes accountability for how we treat others, how we speak to others and how we communicate in the tech world of today, what a huge start that would be. Yes, one word—“ACCOUNTABILITY.”
Bullies usually surround themselves with like-minded weakness. They validate each other. Lots of back-slapping at-a-boyz! and, at-a-girlz! going on. And, more often than not there’s a pecking order. At the top—usually the one with the loudest, foulest, most brazen hurtful mouth. At the bottom—the most fearful follower of the pack. Leading as an example of great character is what’s considered laughable within these circles. They spin out of control. Lack of character is what they embrace. And, the spinning continues.
Standing up to a bully takes courage—one of the most admirable character traits anyone can demonstrate. Honesty, responsibility, self-discipline and even compassion might come into play when standing up to a bully. There are tons of kids bullied/abused at home and then go to school taking their frustrations out on someone else because they’re deemed powerless in what’s supposed to be the safest place of all—home. Showing compassion for someone in that kind of situation takes a trait much deeper than courage. That’s not to say there’s ever an excuse for bullying; and, anyone indicative of such behavior should be held to task. There’s always a consequence matching someone’s action—good or bad. Reward for the good. Punishment for the bad. Plain and simple! Or is it? What if a bully thinks he/she is justified?
Check out what my guest from last month’s Onward and Upward Blog Talk Radio show, Judge Thomas Jacobs, penned. Please take your time reading it. As a parent, I found it heartbreaking…


A Message to Parents from a Teen’s Grave
by Thomas Jacobs www.askthejudge.info

“Oftentimes, out of personal tragedy comes a benefit to others. In the case of Jamey Rodemeyer the investigation into his suicide on September 18, 2011, presents a powerful message to parents, guardians and caretakers of children and teenagers.

After 14 year-old Jamey took his life at home following years of bullying, the police took custody of his cell phone and computer. They discovered that Jamey had an account on Tumblr.com, Formspring and other social networking web sites. His parents weren’t aware of these accounts and accepted Jamey’s word that everything was fine at his new school. But it wasn’t.

The police discovered mean-spirited and cruel postings to Jamey during the months before he started ninth grade. Jamey had suffered years of bullying through middle school. His parents thought starting high school would be different. Jamey told them that things were better but kept the truth to himself. Some of the comments included:  “JAMIE IS STUPID, GAY, FAT ANND UGLY. HE MUST DIE!” an anonymous commenter said on Formspring. “I wouldn’t care if you died. No one would. So just do it :) It would make everyone WAY more happier!” said another.

Parents, make sure you keep the conversation going with your kids. In order to properly monitor your son or daughter’s online life, you need to understand the technology and keep up with new web sites. Once you build trust with your teenager, sharing their passwords with you will be expected and come easily.

These messages to Jamey were undoubtedly a shock to his parents. But they are a message to all those responsible for our youth to know their friends including their online acquaintances. It could save a life. Our hearts go out to Jamey’s family and friends. His bullies also need understanding as they may have been bullying victims as well and have to live with Jamey’s passing for the rest of their lives. They won’t be prosecuted as insufficient evidence exists to file formal charges. Their consequence for participating in this loss is essentially a life sentence.”



You can hear this great interview in it's entirety on my Radio Show: 
Can it get any clearer than that? Seriously, we’re no longer talking about kids getting bruised up in the school parking lot, or locker room. No, we’re talking about head games being played on kids being drawn into the (new) “it’s their world” for the whole school, neighborhood and world to see. As an adult, I know the weak aggressors try to be the big-mouth bullies—regardless of where they are. I’m pretty equipped, as I believe most adults are, at shutting a bully down based on life experience. Our kids however, do not have the life experience to realize you cannot rationalize with irrational people.
Mocking and/or name calling comes from someone who’s incredibly insecure—no matter what the age. So as grown men and women, parents, leaders in this society, let’s get our act together and educate the uneducated who do not understand, or fail to even try to comprehend the ramifications of bullying…especially cyber-bullying where it’s much easier to throw a [cowardly] virtual punch. A secure person with an immense sense of self, at any age, would think twice before hitting ‘Enter.’ Recognize the weakness of the bully…then step forth donned with great character.
I’d like to end with a quote I once read that went something like this, “One cannot feel stress and gratitude at the same time…I prefer to feel gratitude.”
I, too, prefer gratitude—to feel thankful, enjoyment, love and a complete sense of self. With those traits in hand, bullying, whether it be eye to eye or the quick type & enter, no longer has the power it wishes to have.

Read more about Erin Ley @ http://www.erinley.com

Live ONWARD with great character and a smile!

Monday, November 28, 2011

My Very First Blog: ONWARD and UPWARD

Welcome to my new site! This is an exciting time for me, my husband Ronnie, and our three young children—Brendan, Danny and Maggie. We are experiencing many “new beginnings”—a great place to also begin a brand new blog! I asked for their ideas on what I should call this new venture and they suggested I stick with my favorite expression… ‘onward and upward.’ So, “ONWARD and UPWARD” it is!
I’m launching many things at once. There’s an expression, “All good things come to those who wait.” Well, I’ve been extremely patient as I’ve met many bumps in the road. Each bump a mere obstacle I’ve run around, fallen over, leaped over or flat out kicked to the curb. Now it seems as if the stars have aligned.
As a child, approximately forty years ago, I told my parents, “When I grow up I want to write children’s books.”
I’m forty-five and still unsure if I’ve grown up; however, I have without a doubt grown deeper and found my passion, my life’s purpose. Helping others based on my own life experiences is what I find most rewarding. As you’ll see here in this new site, all that I do has one underlying current. Helping others young and old seems to be my calling.
I find writing character-building children’s books most fascinating. Some writer’s try to find the perfect spin on a word, the rhythm flowing throughout the page or maybe some form of genius in keeping the message hidden within the story for only the reader to interpret.
I, on the other hand, write mainly for the clear message. I write with a purpose. I’m not saying my writing is any better or worse than anyone else, all I’m saying is with my writing [as with me] “what you see is what you get.” Writing didactic character-building books for children is a huge part of what I do because I feel the youth of today may no longer interpret the hidden message. Time in their world has quickened with technology whereby moments to think and decipher a correct message may not be available. The virtue of patience has been tested like never before. Therefore, the message of respect, responsibility, compassion, honesty and accountability, self-discipline, generosity, self-esteem, individuality, courage and confidence are spelled out, obvious for the reader. My intent is not condescending. Quite the contrary, it’s to ascend…lift and inspire to new heights. To be able to help each child recognize his or her unique kindness, beauty and extraordinary character through illustration is something I LOVE to do. With the help of my twelve year old main character, Maggie the Magnificent, I bring children into the year 3510 and set out on many adventures with Maggie and her spaceship. Each adventure within Maggie’s in the Driver’s Seat (consisting of six short stories) and Maggie Unmasks Planet Pumpkin deals with a different dominant character trait.
After having the Maggie the Magnificent children’s series published, the second half of my writing experience came to be…writing for adults. My empowering and inspiring cancer memoir/self-help book for adults titled, The Will To Live: The Perks of Cancer Through the Eyes of a Survivor was released. This book too is in line with my passion, what I believe to be my life’s purpose. I write for the message to be loud and clear. I write about hope, love, light and believing in oneself and others. For the last twenty years I’ve dedicated myself as a cancer coach, advocate, and motivational and inspirational speaker to help others get through their diagnosis without as much suffering as I endured during my two and half year protocol. It’s remarkably gratifying. I’m not a therapist or MD; however, I am someone who has been where that cancer patient is, gets it, and can provide what, more often than not, the doctors cannot.
As I’ve wanted to scream from the rooftops on more than one occasion what it is I’ve felt very deeply and strongly compelled to say, I decided in March 2010 to begin my own international web-based family oriented talk radio show. Onward And Upward, which represents moving forward and growing, is all about raising the proverbial bar in society. We have guests from all walks of life who are experts in their fields. I learn just as much as our listeners what it is we are discussing during any particular episode. I love it!
Please take the time to peruse my new site here at www.ErinLey.comsign up for our newsletter and take a moment to introduce yourself in the contact area. Thank you for taking the time to stop by; and, thank you for taking the time to read my very first blog.
Live ONWARD with great character and a smile!
Love,
~Erin

Live ONWARD with great character and a smile!

http://www.erinley.com

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

HEAL WITH HOPE AND AN OPEN MIND: "Onward And Upward"






January 31, 2011 
Anne Garcia McCullough & 
Maura Ellis Youle
    Hopeology LLC
"Onward And Upward" The Motivational Talk Radio Program Designed To Engage The Working Aspects Of Your Heart And Mind. 


This program was scheduled to air live on December 28, 2010 at 12pm, the month of miracles. However, due to the blizzard here in NY we lost the internet for that day. As a firm believer in everything happens for a reason, had this show aired that day, I truly believe I would not have had the opportunity to get to know these two amazing women the way I have over the past month. I can't wait to share their story with you!
    
Debilitated with multiple sclerosis, Anne Garcia McCullough went from being legally blind, needing a walker, on all sorts of medication, and so much more, to being completely healed of  the disease. Anne is now the President and resident philosopher of Hopeology, L.L.C.; a "recovering attorney"; and, training to test for her black belt in Muay Thai Kick boxing. She's very involved in her community, in particular, with the National MS Society in Colorado and Wyoming. Anne is also an Art History teacher and is currently helping to implement a peace program in her children's school.

Maura Ellis Youle is the Co-founder of Hopeology, L.L.C. Maura has been gathering what she calls "things that sound true" for the past 20 years. These truths, combined with Anne and Maura's journey, have become Hopeology. Maura teaches Yoga, Reiki, drives kids around and does laundry. She refers to herself as a "Domestic Facilitator". Nonetheless, she is much more than that. Anne credits Maura for Anne's complete recovery from MS...calling it a "cure". Contact: 








Marianne Muldoon is not only our weekly COMMENTATOR, she is an Award Winning...Nationally Recognized...licensed psychotherapist and, Love & Logic Parent Facilitator. 
Please contact her: mariannemuldoon@gmail.com







Our PRODUCER, Bonnie Lierse, is not only a great friend, she is a wife and mother of two grown children; mother-in-law; artist; fabulous real estate agent...sold Erin her home thirteen years ago; and is now producing this program! Please contact her toll free at 866.287.4005 or blierse@optonline.net






Embrace Life! 
Erin


Check out www.ErinLey.com and feel inspired.
 
 
"As a survivor of cancer, to choose happiness over misery when faced with non-Hodgkins lymphoblasic lymphoma was a lot easier said than done. I was 25 and abruptly thrown into a world of disease, pain and turmoil. What could I take out of the experience happily? Many things, as is illustrated in my book-the negative brought full circle to demonstrate all of the positive results from my experience." (for ages 17-117)  Click here for more on the book
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Blast off with with Erin Ley's creation of a space academy student named, Maggie the Magnificent. Maggie's a gregarious girl with an inquisitive mind, courageous spirit, and loving heart, as she jaunts from one planet to the next in her spaceship. Fun, creative, intelligent, and meaningful, the stories present important lessons in exciting ways that encourage children of all ages to tell their parents about their own daily adventures. This book has six short stories. Each story deals with a different dominant character trait: 1) Responsibility; 2) Respect; 3) Honesty & Accountability; 4) Compassion; 5) Self-Discipline; 6) Generosity  (for ages 4-12)
Endorsed by many including Whoopi Goldberg, distinguished award winning actress and comedian; Television show host, The View.
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Erin Ley's 36 page character-building children's book,Maggie Unmasks Planet Pumpkin, is the second book of the Maggie the Magnificent series and has been created to illustrate the importance of self-esteem, individuality, and having the courage to be oneself. The message of this story is more about taking the mask off rather than putting one on. 
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